This is a quote that most of women need to be reminded of on a regular basis, as we have been socialized to put the needs of others first: before our own. However sadly, rarely is the reciprocal the case – where the person whose needs we consider a priority, also puts our needs as their priority as well.

All too often, an imbalance exists in relationships, which can lead to feelings of resentment, and even low self-esteem, which can be difficult to break away from, should situations become untenable. In order to begin to break free from this mindset, this socialised behaviour, we need to be bold. We need to be prepared to put ourselves and our needs first, and to convey that to others.

In already existing relationships, it can be difficult to reframe the established dynamic, as the other parties are likely to be resistant to the recalibration you are requesting. However, it is important to remember that self-care and self-love are your responsibility.

 

Throughout the day, we invite you to revisit this quote. Below are a few questions you may wish to ask yourself, and those who journal may find them especially useful:

• Am I the priority of my life?
• Are there others who are the priority of my life?
• Am I a priority to them?
• If I am not a priority to them, why might that be the case?

 

 

Best wishes, and have a great day!