We may not necessarily realise it, but there is a difference between ‘hearing’ and ‘listening’. We can hear because our ears – the organ that detects and processes sound – are functioning properly. Listening occurs after and requires intention. Frequently, we may need to be silent and concentrate on the sounds we are hearing, such as the sounds of nature or someone speaking to us.

However, even when we are actively listening to someone, we ought to be aware that there might be more going on than what is being said. There may be reasons behind how and why the speaker is conveying information in the way they are doing. For example, they are sharing what they know, or they want to show themselves or others in a particular light, or they do not want to tell you the entire story. Hence, what is not being said is even more important than what is being said.

In actively listening or listening closely, you may get nudges that may cause you to not take what is being said at face value. Even though you may not know exactly what is not being said, that discernment can make all the difference in how you respond.

 

 

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